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New on August 3rd, 2004
Victoria Carr will be working as a camp counselor at Camp Oneida from Aug. 15 - 23rd.
Shannon Tufts will be babysitting families around Westdale for the rest of the summer.
Joan Buddle is feeling great!
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New On July 29th, 2004
John & Leny Vandermark will be away Aug. 3 - Sept. 29 on an extended motor vacation, camping in western Canada.
Thanks to all of the volunteers who emptied the kitchen to have it cleaned. It will be repainted, with new lighting and flooring installed.
Shawn Cowan is keeping the youth group together over the summer. Thanks so much, Shawn!
Hazel Hough (age 95) had a stroke, and will be at Idelwylde on July 26th.
Sharon & Bob Garden will be spending a week at a cottage at Port Loring, Ontario.
Heather Foster successfully passed her RN exams, and is now a fully qualified Public Health Nurse.
Stephen and Peggy are expecting to return on Sept.
The daughter of one of our elder-couples is back in town for a couple of months.
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Introduction to Men’s Community
I don’t know if we’ve met; even if we have, you probably don’t know me very well. Here’s a start at getting acquainted…
On Sunday afternoons from February to November I enjoy being in our family room, watching NASCAR. My favorite driver is Mark Martin, driving the number 6 Pfizer Ford. I also enjoy going to my boys’ sports events with my wife. My younger son, Joel, and I fished together over 200 hours last summer. At home, my wife and I had to do some minor repairs to our bathroom floor and my older son will be re-doing our kitchen floor with ceramic tile. I support my family by selling automotive replacements parts. So…, that’s me. Now what about you? Do you have similar stories or other interests?
At work each day, I answer the phone at least 100 times. Every phone call has at least one thing in common! That “thing” is contact between two people who depend on each other to help provide for themselves.
Recently I have been reading the stories of Eli, Saul, Samuel and David in the Book of Samuel. These men worked with people to help develop a nation for God. The point that I’ve noticed, is that they were with other men who were heading in the same “life’s direction”. At times mistakes were made and some lessons learned the hard way.
At Philpott, I have noticed many men tend to stand on the outside of the events of the church; I was one of them. Men have the tendency to lead at home and be quiet and passive about their lives at church. I have often thought “how neat it would be to have a group of men helping each other” to become the men that God intends us to be. I for one am looking for others to help me along my journey. I did not come from a Christian home and so I do not have an example of one to follow; I often just “fly by the seat of my pants”. I know of other men who are in the same boat as me, and others who were raised in Christian homes. Regardless of our up bringing, as men we face tests and temptations everyday that threaten to tear our lives apart.
I was speaking with an acquaintance some time ago. I was telling him of a particular struggle that I was facing. We met together a number of times to specifically talk about this struggle. It felt so good to be able to speak with someone who was not only willing to take the time to listen, but to provide the practical help that I so desperately needed. We are now friends who are helping each other in our “life’s direction”.
Where am I going with this letter? I know many would say “YES” if the “magical key to a better life” were offered to them. I am not offering that! We as men of Philpott Church have the opportunity to help overselves, and each other to become what God intends men to be, regardless of age or station in life. Eli, Samuel, Saul and David helped themselves when they went to God for help. Our church has a group of men who are interested in helping each other in all areas of life. They would like to include you and your friends as well.
Pastor Lane and I are planning a 1-1/2 hour time slot once a week where men will meet for a time of teaching/instructing, table discussion and food. I am asking you to think about this, talk to your family and friends or me about your involvement in this. The material to be presented is not only practically proven for the issues WE face today, but is applicable for those who regualrly attend church, AND those who almost never enter its doors.
Lane and I would like to interact with you about the launch of our MEN’S COMMUNITY in November, as a followup to our 40 Days of Purpose.
Gerald L’Abbe
Men’s Community Administrator
gerald_labbe@yahoo.ca
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Together Forever
by John Fischer
A friend of mine has written a tongue-in-cheek song about a certain reluctance to go home for Christmas due to the strained relationships that always seem to characterize these once-a-year family get-togethers. I have witnessed his performance of this song numerous times, and every time it receives a boisterous response from the audience. If the perfect family exists somewhere, I haven’t found it yet, and I would venture to guess you haven’t either. It stands to reason, therefore, that our spiritual families will be plagued by the same limitations that characterize our physical families. There is no perfect small group, no perfect church, no perfect community.
The issue for our fellowship, therefore, is not to be free of problems, but to be free of pretense. Conflict, disagreements or differences of opinion are not the enemy of good relationships—dishonesty is. We can go through anything together if we are committed to two things—the truth about ourselves, and the permanency of our relationships in the Body of Christ.
These two things are absolutely necessary for a good relationship: telling the truth, and a tenacious refusal to walk away. My wife and I have a joke about this. We tell people that we have simply decided that divorce is out of the question as a solution to our problems: “Murder maybe, but not divorce!”
Imagine if we had the same tenacity towards each other in the Body of Christ What would happen if the ending or the avoidance of any relationship in Christ were simply not an option.
If you think about it, even if we make it an option, it has to be only temporary, because we are all headed to our eternal home in heaven where all differences, factions and grudges will be erased forever. Like we used to say in the Jesus movement: We’re going to be together forever, so we might as well start getting used to each other now. There are no exit doors in the family of God.
Contributed by Bill Tufts
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